Thursday, February 28, 2008

If you don't have anything nice to say...

If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. If I lived by that saying there would be days of silence for me. Just kidding- but really not everything I feel or say can be this uplifting message or positive outlook. Sometimes there is nothing more satisfying than a good ole' bitching session. You know the type where you sit down with a close friend and just complain and complain. Since I feel blah at this moment, I am going to write nothing at all. May my nothing say everything.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well that was very profound and extremely well written. And your right, you dont have to always be perky and upbeat on the blog. That is the great thing about my telephone. We can bitch all we want and the funny thing is, it will never be posted no matter how long we talk. I love you and your blog is well written and your silence speaks so very much. Take care. Heather

Anonymous said...

Why do you think that I have always been considered a "quiet" person all these years? If I have every given you the impression that I never bitch just spend a little more time talking with my family, especially about these last couple of years now that I am getting older. You're right, we don't always have to be upbeat and perky and if you want to express that on the blog there is nothing wrong with that. My problem has always been that I don't make close friends easily so haven't always had someone to express myself like I would like to. I know this time isn't easy for you especially. Your life has taken a tremendous change since November and now one feels that change more than you and Mark. Bitch all you want, don't feel you have to hold it all in. Life isn't always fair and we don't have to like it.
Love, Mom

DiLyn said...

Hi Mark,
I'm not sure you will remember me. Remember when you use to live in Estacada? I'm Diana Halley. My son's name is Tony, he was3 and Scott was born a year after Sarah. Any way.
I just wanted to say I've been thinking about you and your family, praying that you will get well. Your very loved by your family so keep fighting for them and yourself. Barb sent me a picture of your little one. He's a beautiful baby. Tony and his wife had twins last June. They spent 7 weeks in NIC. They were 3lb 4oz & 4lb 3oz. We almost lost Connor but they both are doing great now.
I hadn't seen your parent since we all lived in W.W, Wa. It was good to see them at the 75 year reunion at Estacada. I wish I could have spent more time with them. All of you have had a special place in my heart.
I lost my youngest son to diabeties complacations last summer. So you need to keep fighting no matter how hard it is to do so. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers and thoughts.
Much Love to you and Yours.
Diana (Halley) Borgstedt.

Anonymous said...

sweetheart....you have the right to have the biggest bitch session of all times...sometimes you do need to let it out!!! And I can imagine what type of session Mark would have! Like Barbara said...Life is not always fair!!

Love to you all!

Mom (Diane)